Mistake 1: I’m Just Naturally Worried, Anxious or Stressed
The truth is, no one is born naturally worried, anxious or stressed. In fact our bodies are marvelous things, created to operate at optimum performance and stress is part of it’s performance. The feeling we describe as stress is a natural feeling which is intended to lay dormant until some form of a threat presents itself to us. When this happens we are alerted to the danger by this uneasy feeling, worry, stress or anxiety, and hopefully we become more attentive to it and thus more capable to handle the threat.
Mistake 2: Expecting Stress To Go Away By Thinking ‘Positive Thoughts’
Stress is an emotion; and, as most therapists will tell you, ‘it is impossible to logic ones own way out of an emotion. Logic responds to logic; and, emotions respond to emotions. No one is capable to ’just snap out of it’ or ‘be logical’ and know there is really very little to worry about. Continue reading ‘Worry And Stress? – Four Critical Mistakes When Trying To Control Worry And Stress’ »